- Parental responsibility refers to the duties and authority parents have for making major decisions affecting the child’s well-being.
- Sole parental responsibility means one parent can make major decisions without consulting the other parent.
- Sole parental responsibility may be appropriate in situations involving domestic violence, mental health issues, substance abuse, or inability to parent effectively.
- Obtaining sole parental responsibility requires applying to the court with evidence supporting the child’s best interests.
While the decisions that fall under parental responsibility are considered major decisions, it’s important to note that parental responsibility is not about living with or spending time arrangements between parents and children.
This is another reason for confusion because child custody and custody-related terms are commonly used as a “catchall” term where they are used in a way to imply complete control over the child’s care and upbringing, including their living arrangements and visitation. When people refer to sole custody or full custody, they often mean it in a way where the other parent has limited or no involvement.
To help clarify this some more, let’s look at parental responsibility in more detail.
What is parental responsibility?
So, we mentioned above that parental responsibility refers to the duties, powers, responsibilities and authorities that parents have in relation to their children and it is defined in section 61B of the Family Law Act 1975.
As the child’s parent, you have the right to make decisions that relate to the care, welfare and development of that child. These decisions are considered to be major long-term issues and include:
- The education of the child, both their current education and future education;
- Medical and health related procedures and treatments;
- The religious and cultural upbringing of a child;
- Living arrangements that could impact their ability to spend time with their other parent (not to be confused with other living arrangements);
- Travel document authorisation; and
- Changing the child’s name.
If you’re named as a parent on the child’s birth certificate, you automatically have parental responsibility for that child and the only way for you to not have this responsibility is via court orders, where you either agree through a consent order to waive your parental responsibility or after a hearing, the court orders a change in the parental responsibility.
On top of automatically having parental responsibility if you’re named on the child’s birth certificate, this parental responsibility is considered to be equal between the parents and it means that the parents have to make a genuine effort to consult with and come to an agreement regarding the major long-term issues we listed above.
Even when the parents of a child separate, the family law system operates on the presumption of equal shared parental responsibility and neither parent loses this responsibility.
As a child’s parent, it is possible to apply for sole parental responsibility, which we will talk about in more detail later on. And as a significant person in the child’s life, it is possible to apply for parental responsibility, however, parental responsibility isn’t automatically awarded or guaranteed in instances where you marry a child’s biological parent and become their stepparent, as an example.
Before we talk more about sole parental responsibility, let’s discuss custody in a little more detail.
What do people usually mean by custody?
Commonly, when people refer to child custody, they usually mean not only the aspect covered by parental responsibility, but also the living and visitation arrangements.
The living and visitation arrangements are not covered under parental responsibility, rather they are managed under parenting arrangements, which help to regulate how the parents will spend time with their children. Spending time may include living arrangements, communication and visitation, and these arrangements can be made through parenting plans, consent orders or parenting orders made by a court. If you would like more information about parenting arrangements, read this article.
It’s important to be aware of the numerous implied meanings of custody to ensure that when you’re discussing parenting matters, including living arrangements and responsibilities, you’re discussing the right topic.
This distinction is important because it’s possible for various living and spending time arrangements to co-exist with equal shared parental responsibility. For example, both parents could have equal responsibility for the child, but one parent is the primary carer, and the child lives and spends more time with that parent than with the other.
What does it mean to have sole parental responsibility?
Sole parental responsibility means that you do not need to consult with your child’s other parent before making any of the major decisions we mentioned above that concern your child.
Some of the things you could decide without the other parent’s agreement if you have sole parental responsibility include where the child will go to school, if you want to apply for a passport for the child, and the religious upbringing of the child.
As a parent with sole parental responsibility, you are solely responsible for making these long-term major decisions for your child, however, it does not mean that your child can’t spend time with their other parent, unless there is a parenting order stating otherwise.
Equal parental responsibility vs sole parental responsibility
As we touched on above, the Australian family law system works on the presumption of both parents having equal shared responsibility. This means that parents automatically have parental responsibility, and this is because is believed to be in the best interests of the child.
The best interests of the child are an important consideration in family law, and decisions made by the court, as well as by parents outside of the court, should be made with the child’s best interest as the paramount consideration.
The best interests of the child are based on a number of considerations, with two primary considerations, which are:
- the benefit to the child of having a meaningful relationship with both of the child’s parents; and
- the need to protect the child from physical or psychological harm from being subjected to, or exposed to, abuse, neglect or family violence.
The latter of these two considerations is given more weight. This information is further clarified in the Section 60CC of the Family Law Act 1975.
While this presumption exists, equal shared parental responsibility may not always be the best option, and this is entirely dependent on your circumstances. Below, we will discuss situations where sole parental responsibility is likely to be more appropriate than shared parental responsibility.
The family law system in Australia encourages children and parents to have meaningful relationships and usually only grants sole parental responsibility to one parent when the welfare of the child is in danger, such as in the scenarios we mentioned above.
How do you get sole parental responsibility?
Sole parental responsibility can only be granted by the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia and must be applied for through parenting orders.
You will need to apply for orders seeking full parental responsibility and provide evidence and information as to why this is in your child’s best interests.
Before applying for these orders, we highly recommend speaking to a family lawyer. We can help you to understand your options, we can also help to facilitate discussions, negotiation and even mediation with your child’s other parent to help you reach a resolution for your dispute. And if applying for sole responsibility is the most appropriate option for your situation, we can also help to prepare your application.
What if I think my child is in danger?
If you’re concerned about your child’s wellbeing and think you may be in immediate danger, we recommend contacting your local police or applying to the local court for a protection order.
If you’re concerned about your safety but not in immediate danger, you can get in touch with us, and we can help you to understand your options and help you to apply for urgent parenting orders.
Are you involved in a parenting matter?
Whether you’re trying to work out parenting arrangements, you want to understand your legal options or you want to obtain sole parental responsibility, we can help you. Our family law firm is well-experienced regarding a wide range of parenting and children’s matters and we’re here to help you find the best outcome for you and your family.
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