The burden of such injustices will ordinarily fall, as here, on the wife. It will be she, not the husband, who will usually be confined, in effect, in her personal movements, emotional environment, employment opportunities and chances of remarriage, repartnering and reparenting. Effectively, as here, it is she who will be controlled by court orders that require her to live, and make the most of her life, in physical proximity to the husband’s whereabouts. In this way, inconvenience to the husband is minimised. But the effect on the wife may be profound.
- In terms of the potential impact on the children, in AMS v AIF [1999] HCA 26 at [145], Kirby J further observed that:
One of the objects of modern family law statutes (including FLA 1975 and FCA 1975) is to enable parties to a broken relationship to start a new life for themselves, to control their own future destinies and, where desired, to form new relationships, free from unnecessary interference from a former spouse or partner or from a court. Courts recognise that unwarranted interference in the life of a custodial parent may itself occasion bitterness towards the former spouse or partner which may be transmitted to the child or otherwise impinge on the happiness of the custodial (or residence) parent in a way likely to affect the welfare or best interests of the child. This said, the touchstone for the ultimate decision must remain the welfare or best interests of the child and not, as such, the wishes and interests of the parents. To the extent that earlier authority may have suggested the contrary, it has now, properly, been rejected.
- The Full Court in Bolitho & Cohen [2005] FamCA 458 confirmed that the proper approach to be adopted in relocation cases, as held by the High Court in U v U, is one involving the:
… weighing of competing proposals, having regard to relevant [s 60CC] factors, and consideration of other relevant factors, including the right of freedom of movement of the parent who wishes to relocate, bearing in mind that ultimately the decision must be one which is in the best interests of the child.