Get What You Deserve From Your Family Law Property Settlement

Fair Property Settlement

Are you going through an emotionally turbulent divorce or separation? If so, don’t feel like you’re alone. This is much more common than you might think. Many people in your situation struggle to reach a financial or property settlement with their ex-partner.

Many people will, after going through months and perhaps years of painful fighting with their ex-partner, give in and accept a settlement that’s far less than what they deserve simply because they want the saga to end. While it’s good to put the fighting behind you and move on, you shouldn’t accept a deal that you’re not satisfied with just for the sake of putting the matter behind you.

While you might initially be relieved its over, as the weeks go on, you may start beating yourself up knowing that you could have walked away with more. It would be even more painful if you discover your ex-partner has obtained a much better outcome than you and is enjoying their new life care-free while you regret not standing your ground.

The following will look at some advice you can follow to ensure you don’t cave-in early and ensure you get what you deserve from your property settlement.

Be prepared for a long legal dispute

While the majority of property settlements are negotiated outside of courtrooms, this does not necessarily mean they are all arrived at without difficulty. While you should go into the proceedings with a positive attitude towards finding a mutually acceptable arrangement, you should prepare yourself for a long legal battle if the worst should occur.

Its good to go into mediation sessions preparing for the long-haul. Wear comfortable clothing, bring a snack – make it less of an ordeal in any way you can.

Keep an eye on your health

While your separation with your ex-partner is no doubt emotionally damaging, it can have negative physical effects as well. It’s very easy to accidentally skip meals simply because you’re so focused on the stress of what’s going on or give up an exercise routine you had previously done on a routine basis.

Keep things in perspective

Make sure that you understand what the impact of settling for less money can mean for your future and keep that at the forefront of your mind. It’s easy to lose sight of your legal objectives when you’re being constantly worn down by bickering with your ex – keep an analytical mind.

In this regard, your family lawyer is one of your closest allies. They will be able to keep you focused on the practical details of your case, steering you away from distractions that are going to hinder your ability to get the outcome you want.

Let your divorce lawyer work for you

While this may sound like obvious advice, many people don’t realise that they are perhaps unnecessarily over-involved in the nitty-gritty details of the case. You have a lawyer for a reason – don’t get hung up on details that they can be trusted to handle on your behalf.

If you have any concerns that you need peace of mind over, make sure that you are able to easily correspond with your family lawyer either over the phone, via email or even with text messages. A good family lawyer will be easy to contact when you have questions about your case.

Get sleep before big decisions

Avoid making quick decisions, especially when your emotions are running high. When you’re furious with your ex and can’t stand being in the room with them any longer, it’s easier to accept settlements that aren’t ideal.

Ultimately, ensuring that you get what you deserve out of your property settlement is all about clearly establishing your goals and not compromising out of frustration. Maintaining your willpower throughout lengthy negotiations can be difficult, but with the support of an experienced family lawyer you can expedite matters and move on with your life.

If you need a family lawyer to assist you with property settlement or another divorce related issue, don’t hesitate to get in touch with us.